Most girls do not believe in true love. They do not believe in forever. They do not believe in a lot of things. But the question is...why?
I don't really know why either. But all i do know, is that there are some guys or girls, who go into a relationship just for the fun of it. In other words, fooling around. I mean, i've seen some couples who are quite close, but yet the guy always flirts around with other girls. I don't understand. I mean, being in a relationship means loving your partner wholeheartedly and truly. Which also includes loving her good points as well as her flaws. True love lasts a lifetime, because of this pure and simple love.
And yet, some people say that they love a certain person, but once you turn away, he suddenly seems to say those three words to anyone else. I love you. These three words. They are simple words, yet these words hold a strong meaning and definition. It is not to be fooled around with. To say these three words out loud, isn't easy. You will need courage from the heart and basically, only if you are truly in love, then you can use it. These three words symbolises a promise to each other, that they will only love each other, and no other person can take their place in their hearts.
And because many guys cheat on their girlfriend, or vice versa, it makes everyone else very wary of such things. Which pisses me off. I mean, relationship is all about trust. Which means, we put our absolute 100% trust into our partner, vulnerable to everything and just trusting that they will not toy with their heart. And some peple break this trust. Which results in more and more people not believing in true love or forever.
Now its my turn. I strongly believe that the end result of all relationships should ultimately lead to marriage. And by going into a relationship, it means that we have to be faithful and loyal to our partner. I mean, true love always last. So by right, all relationships WILL lead to marriage, unless someone else tries to break apart the trust, or the trust among the two is somehow lost. Which is rarely impossible if it is true love.
And when in a relationship, guys must stop flirting. It will make your girl more insecure and sad and emo and stuff. Just love her wholehearted, love only her. Instead of spending your time trying to talk to other girls, why not spend it on finding more ways to love and treasure your partner instead? And we should always stay faithful to our partner. If not, you will just breaking the trust and promise that both of you have of each other. I mean, isnt it stupid to fall in love with someone else, while you are in a relationship? You love your partner. Then no one else should be able to replace him/her in your heart. If this isnt the case for you, then i suggest you dont go into a relationship and destroying the trust and hearts of everyone else. Stop destroying the meaning of true love.
What people need to understand, is that true love and forever DOES exist. All they just have to do, is to find the right person.
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